The Anti-Daygame System for Men Who Want Real Results - Not Polite Conversations.
Be sexually compelling
Stop chasing, start attracting
Most men who “learn game” end up with the same problem: They’re trained to be, chatty, friendly, and socially smooth, and even worse, they see this as being successful. Their coaches even tell them they should be focusing on having conversations. One thing, they are not taught to be is being sexually compelling. This is why London Daygame guys get polite conversations, “get to know the girl” to then be told after 10min conversation that she has a boyfriend. The worst thing, they leave the interaction frustrated not understanding what they did wrong or analysing with their coach whether the conversation was good. After all, if their conversational skills would have been better, they could have gotten the girl, is implied. The entire model is built on comfortable chit-chat. It praises men for “having a nice interaction”. In the worst case, men are stuck in the platonic non polar chit chat territory for months if not years until they “quit game”.
My method is the opposite
What I do NOT teach you
- I don’t teach you to be a street clown or a social butterfly.- I don’t teach you to run after women at Oxford Street- I don’t teach you how to make funny jokes and laugh like a clown- I don’t teach you how to “focus on conversation”- I don’t teach you how play the entertainer for the girlWhat I do teach you is:- How to spike the girl's emotions so she actually sees you as a sexual entity- How to approach in different environments and be socially free- How your game "flies under the radar"- How to maximise your looks and style so women actually take you seriously- The real meaning of "playing the numbers game"- A structured beginner friendly system which gets results
Polarity over Friendliness
Why this isn't Day Game
Daygame coaches love pretending they’re spontaneous and natural. They claim they don’t use lines, they “just vibe,” they keep it real. But watch any of them for thirty seconds and you’ll hear the same script every other London street-approach guy uses over and over again hiding behind the veil of "authentically getting to know the girl".You look like a solicitor? You are interested in fashion? Do you like to travel? Are you out shopping? You look like you are from [insert random country]. It’s not spontaneity. It’s recycled material, disguised as authenticity.
Don't try to be spontaneous....at the beginning
Not something you do but something you are
The Emotional Unlock Method doesn’t pretend to be spontaneous. It doesn’t hide behind the fantasy of “natural game.” It’s structured deliberately. But it’s structured for attraction, not conversation. For dominance, not approval. For emotional impact, not friendly rapport.
Are you ready?
What Makes This Method Different?
No chit-chat. No fake friendliness. Women don’t get attracted to men because they had a “nice conversation.” They get attracted to men who send them on an emotional rollercoaster and hold tension, feel you as "dangerous" and at the same time safe.The Emotional Unlock Method removes all the fluff:
- no small talk into neverland
- no “get to know you” questions that kill polarity
- no 10-15min boring conversation that lead to nowhere
- no conversational padding
- no wasting time on unavailable girlsInstead, we work with your presence, your nervous system, and your ability to create polarity and tension on demand. It will be the girl who is nervous when you approach her, not you. Every stage is about emotion, tension and male grounding
The method follows a sequencing that has one goal and one goal only:THE EMOTIONAL UNLOCK OF THE GIRL
get results even from girls who you thought “rejected” you
You learn how to lead a woman’s nervous system
Most men get thrown off the moment a woman:Giggles nervously, looks away, gets overwhelmed, reacts awkwardly, tries to leave, says thank you, stays neutral, pivots away, looks at them confused, tests them, gets shy, gets flustered, becomes chaotic.Men often interpret these reactions as rejections and leave the girl not knowing what the girl was really about. Or they stay and somehow run the interaction into the ground, get mad at themselves never understanding what the real reason was why the interaction failed.This is not about overpowering her. It's about understanding her nervous system and leading in a calibrated, grounded way. We will tackle these problems together.
Beginner Friendly
Most men fail not because they lack courage, but because they lack structure. When you’re new, “just be natural” is the worst advice anyone can give you. The Emotional Unlock Method gives beginners a simple, calm, step-by-step framework that removes overthinking, reduces nerves, and gives you something solid to lean on. Instead of guessing what to say next, you follow a clear path. This makes approaching feel stable, predictable, and surprisingly easy, so you can relax, stay present, and let your confidence build organically.
Let's change for good
This is a results-driven method
If you want to "stay in the comfort zone" this is not the place for you.
I take on men who are truly willing to change.This is not:“Let’s celebrate that you spoke to 5 people today.”“Let’s try to be more chatty with strangers."Let’s do some warm up approaches first""Let’s hype ourselves up that we can approach an attractive girl and the average guy cannot""Let’s celebrate that we had a 10 minute friendly chit chat with a girl"That’s the London Daygame comfort treadmill.
Do your interactions tick these boxes?
The questions my method asks
Are you creating attraction or not?Are you moving the interaction forward or not?Are you getting phone numbers or not?Is she responding to your texts or not?Is she coming on a date or not?You’re not here to collect conversations. You’re here to become a man who can escalate, lead, and close. You want “just” a girlfriend? Great, you will still need to take the above hurdles first.
Built for men who aren’t like everyone else.
Under the radar.
No content machine. No audience-building. No shouting online for attention.That’s not masculinity - that’s insecurity.I coach privately, quietly, and with absolute discretion. Only a handful of men. Only those who are serious. No tourists. No dabblers.If you want mass-produced advice, go to YouTube. If you want real calibration, real pressure, and real transformation - you come here.Masculine men don’t need applause. They move differently. They rise differently. If that’s you, you’ll fit here. If not, you won’t.Simple.
Coaching in real time
In-Field Training
You'll wear a discreet mic and I will listen directly to your tonality, pacing and emotional control. No guesswork. No "tell me later what happened".I hear your exact spikes, hesitations, tension drops in real time via the discreet mic and correct you immediately. This is the fastest learning curve possible. Live pressure, live feedback, zero fluff.
What You Get
✔ A powerful, calm sexual presence
✔ The ability to hold tension when she can’t
✔ The ability to lead chaotic female energy
✔ A natural masculine stillness women melt for
✔ A simple, repeatable escalation sequence
✔ Zero panic or overwhelm or “pressure moments”
✔ Real results - not friendly street chatsThat’s what this method builds.This method is ideal for beginners, because it prevents months or years of learning ineffective techniques that must later be unlearned. You start with the correct foundation from day one.
2 hour coaching session
£250
Focused micro-intensive. We get in, calibrate your presence, upgrade your approach mechanics and correct your errors in real time through the discreet mic system. Ideal for absolute beginners.
4 hour coaching session
£400
Extended correction session. You'll experience multiple cycles of approach -> feedback -> recalibration. Your emotional patterns become visible and we fix them the same day.
6 hour deep immersion
£550
The full transformation block. Comprehensive nervous system recalibration, style refinement, in-field practice and repeated tension drills. Maximum results in one day.This service is only available to clients who previously have completed a 2 or 4 hour session. This ensures a strong coaching fit, mutual alignment and the highest quality weekend possible
15h Full Weekend Immersion
£1300
Across 15 hours, you'll cycle repeatedly through approach -> feedback -> recalibration until your sticking points become unmistakably clear and fixed the same day. The immersion is designed to break old patterns, rebuild your nervous system under pressure and make polarity your default state. You will learn to hold tension, lead emotionally and move with grounded masculine intent even in high-pressure environments.It includes a post session analysis: written audio analysis of your two best and two worst sets.This service is only available to clients who previously have completed a 2 or 4 hour session. This ensures a strong coaching fit, mutual alignment and the highest quality weekend possible
WhatsApp accountability
£15 / Week
Stay on track, stay consistent and stay accountable.
This weekly WhatsApp accountability service gives you structured check ins, clear guidance and simple action steps to keep you on track. Whether you have completed in person coaching or are starting fresh, this service keeps you aligned with your goals and prevents you from slipping back into old habits.
What's included:
1 check in per day (Mon - Fri). Short messages from me to keep you accountable. (weekend responses at my discretion)One concise coaching-related question per day. These can be about mindset, communication, confidence, social behaviour, emotional regulation, developing better habits. Questions must be: concise, related to your goals and matched to your current levelWeekly action steps: Small personalised assignments to keep you improving week by week.What's NOT included:
This service does not replace in-person coaching, no live feedback, no real time guidance during interactions. No analysis of conversations, screenshots, voice notes, audio recordings or videos. No session analysis or emergency support. It is not a place for long essays or emotional dumping or unlimited Q&A.
2 hour coaching session
London based private coach for men across the UK. Built on real-world results, not theory. Over a decade of personal experience in relationships, leadership, social dynamics, behavioural change, fitness and personal development.All coaching sessions take place in the city of London.
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